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How do I make friends in an apartment complex?

I moved to this MASSIVE apartment complex. 90% of the people here are established families with no interest in having a life. But every once in a while - from my window, or in the lobby, or on the bus going through the complex - I'll see someone about my age that looks like they might enjoy a few beers on a weekend or even going into the city to get trashed. These are people I want in my life.

But . . . how do I make that happen? The kind of people who enjoy a 24 pack or a beer pong game or a movie marathon are not the kind of people who go to apartment-organized functions, or enjoy being propositioned for friendship by a total stranger. And honestly, I'm not sure how I'd do it if I wanted to - I've never had to work that hard to make friends with people. (I am pretty outgoing.) And as far as I can tell, there are no bars close enough to the place to just go there and peg down people from my complex.

How do you make friends in a new complex starting from zero? Any further thoughts on my predicament?

First, you join Neighborly Friends, but in the meantime you can follow up on some of the suggestions below... 

4625 Spruce Street, Philadelphia, PA, United States